Coming from a female perspective this article is pretty easy to write. It is my belief (as a woman speaking to a man) that you don’t need a wingman. You just need guts and maybe a little courage to approach a woman. Guess what fellas, women want to be approached.
So many times I have seen a guy keen on a girl but he just lets her pass by and he does not take the chance to ask her out. Rejection does not reflect you or who you are, you can’t be afraid of her saying no because the fact is that she may just say ‘yes’. To not have balls and ask a woman out would be that you possibly miss out on the chance of a life time.
The sexiest thing for a woman is a man who has self confidence but the biggest turn off for most women is arrogance so please keep that one in mind. I suppose it is sometimes necessary to have a wingman but the most important aspect in ‘getting the girl’ is to love yourself enough to approach the lady, ask her out and depend on your own personality to win her over.
Since the age of the wingman is coming to a stand still it has become necessary for the man to take charge and do things himself. That in itself is not a bad thing. The main thing is balance, you don’t want to come across as creepy and you don’t want to come across as uninterested. The main thing question you have to ask yourself is, “how do I get the girl?” that question is a large one especially if she is someone you are really attracted to.
I will give away some secrets…how to get the girl…
Self confidence (if you don’t have any, work on it, go to the gym, get active and work on liking yourself)
A touch of charm (women do like beautiful lies.. tell them what they want to hear. Don’t come with cheesy pick up lines rather speak from the heart and say something like,” I couldn’t help notice you from across the room, you look amazing and I’d love to get to know you more, can I buy you a drink or take you out for dinner sometime?”
Deliberately flirt with her, stare at her but don’t creep her out, give her a smile, don’t be shy! If you see her smile back at you, go to her and just do it, ask her out, strike a conversation
The best questions and tips on how to strike a conversation with her would be simple, ask her if she is from around here, what does she do for fun? Keep it light hearted and nonchalant.
Be well dressed and take some time on your looks, be clean cut, smell nice and make effort to attract the girl.
Be there! When you get that first date there are a few things will get you to the next level. To get the girl to go on a second date, show her that she can trust you. Don’t play games, you must just be you. Don’t phone her ten times a day but maybe text her the next day after the date saying, “I really enjoyed going out with you, would love to do that again. Call you later this evening.” Then live up to what you have said. If you don’t want to see her again tell her but if you do want to see her again, open your heart and allow her to build a trust in you and let her see who you are. Be yourself! Please just be yourself!
Show her your responsibility. Show her that you can live up to what you say you are. Don’t lie to her about yourself. Most decent women out there don’t care about how much money you make but as long as you can show her that she can rely on you will suffice.
That is it for now, keep coming to suga date blogspot or www.sugadate.co.za for more tips and ideas. The next issue will be good dating ideas.. unusual tactics to make her stomach turn and ways to get her to beg for more.
So many times I have seen a guy keen on a girl but he just lets her pass by and he does not take the chance to ask her out. Rejection does not reflect you or who you are, you can’t be afraid of her saying no because the fact is that she may just say ‘yes’. To not have balls and ask a woman out would be that you possibly miss out on the chance of a life time.
The sexiest thing for a woman is a man who has self confidence but the biggest turn off for most women is arrogance so please keep that one in mind. I suppose it is sometimes necessary to have a wingman but the most important aspect in ‘getting the girl’ is to love yourself enough to approach the lady, ask her out and depend on your own personality to win her over.
Since the age of the wingman is coming to a stand still it has become necessary for the man to take charge and do things himself. That in itself is not a bad thing. The main thing is balance, you don’t want to come across as creepy and you don’t want to come across as uninterested. The main thing question you have to ask yourself is, “how do I get the girl?” that question is a large one especially if she is someone you are really attracted to.
I will give away some secrets…how to get the girl…
Self confidence (if you don’t have any, work on it, go to the gym, get active and work on liking yourself)
A touch of charm (women do like beautiful lies.. tell them what they want to hear. Don’t come with cheesy pick up lines rather speak from the heart and say something like,” I couldn’t help notice you from across the room, you look amazing and I’d love to get to know you more, can I buy you a drink or take you out for dinner sometime?”
Deliberately flirt with her, stare at her but don’t creep her out, give her a smile, don’t be shy! If you see her smile back at you, go to her and just do it, ask her out, strike a conversation
The best questions and tips on how to strike a conversation with her would be simple, ask her if she is from around here, what does she do for fun? Keep it light hearted and nonchalant.
Be well dressed and take some time on your looks, be clean cut, smell nice and make effort to attract the girl.
Be there! When you get that first date there are a few things will get you to the next level. To get the girl to go on a second date, show her that she can trust you. Don’t play games, you must just be you. Don’t phone her ten times a day but maybe text her the next day after the date saying, “I really enjoyed going out with you, would love to do that again. Call you later this evening.” Then live up to what you have said. If you don’t want to see her again tell her but if you do want to see her again, open your heart and allow her to build a trust in you and let her see who you are. Be yourself! Please just be yourself!
Show her your responsibility. Show her that you can live up to what you say you are. Don’t lie to her about yourself. Most decent women out there don’t care about how much money you make but as long as you can show her that she can rely on you will suffice.
That is it for now, keep coming to suga date blogspot or www.sugadate.co.za for more tips and ideas. The next issue will be good dating ideas.. unusual tactics to make her stomach turn and ways to get her to beg for more.
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